13 Tips When Meeting Sugar Daddy for the First Time

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Learn what to do when you are meeting your sugar daddy for the first time. This article offers several tips and tricks to keep your first sugar date fun and memorable.

Are you a new sugar baby and will be meeting your sugar daddy for the first time? Wondering what to do to make your encounter fun and memorable for both of you?

There’s always a first time for everything! For sugar babies who will be meeting their sugar daddies for the first time, don’t be nervous because we are here to help you enjoy your first date the way you both want it.

We will give you tips and tricks to have a fun date with your sugar daddy. Are you ready? Let’s get started with the list of tips for a sugar baby and sugar daddy first meeting

You’ve got to do something to make your first meeting with your sugar daddy works. If your encounter turns out fine, there’s a big chance that you’ll meet again and end up with an arrangement that both of you will love and enjoy. However, before that day comes, you have to do the following things.


1. Background Check

I understand that you’re excited and happy after finding your first sugar daddy. However, before you decide to meet him, you should think of your safety first, so do a background check.

This might not be easy as some sugar daddies don’t use their real names just like some sugar babies do. However, you have to use your good judgment and do some proper verification.

2. Choose A Good Meeting Place

For your first meetup, it’s best to choose a public place. Make it a point to never meet the sugar daddy in his hotel room or home.

It’s always safer and more comfortable when you meet in a crowded place. Among your best options are restaurants and cafe.

3. Dress to Impress

Men are very visual so strive to be as attractive as you can. Make sure that you look fabulous on your first date. Put on your best dress. Be classy and be fabulous.

However, make sure that you don’t overdress and look high maintenance. In short, dress according to your meetup place.

For instance, if you are meeting in a cafe for coffee, you can wear skinny jeans and a beautiful white blouse with a few buttons and a nice pair of a classic pump or heeled sandals. If you are off to an upscale lounge for a drink or fine dining a little black dress with heels is perfect.

Also, please take note that you should not be overly sexy because men don’t like it when you’re giving it away. Just pick an asset to show off.

4. Be Positive

Things may or may not work out, but it’s recommended that you go on the positive route. Be positive and expect that things would turn out fine.

By feeling this way, you will attract good things and your date may eventually end up in the way you expect it to be.

5. Be Mindful

Yes, it’s tempting to daydream while you are with your sugar daddy, but you need to be present. You will miss the chance of knowing your sugar daddy if your mind is somewhere else.

So, be mindful, savor the moment and enjoy it. Your date should be fun not boring, so be there do not let your thoughts wander anywhere.

6. Be Yourself

You are unique and amazing, so don’t be afraid to be yourself on your first date. Let your personality shine through and capture his attention with everything that you do naturally. Be carefree, be playful, be bold if that is you.

Remember, in sugar dating you are aiming for a long-term relationship with your sugar daddy. Don’t pretend to be anyone else, it’s best if you get his interest and attention by being you because, in that way, it will be easier for you to make your relationship work.

7. Do not fake it

As mentioned be yourself and that means you should not fake your reactions to whatever he does. Do not overreact by making your voice too high, do not be overly happy or do not laugh over the top. Just be natural.

Do not make up a story about yourself that is not true. Do not exaggerate your educational background and accomplishment. Do not pretend to be a doctor, if you are a nurse. Do not act like a lawyer if you are still a law student. Stick to your reality.

8. Make Him More Comfortable

Pretty sure, you’re both nervous on your first meeting. Exert an effort to make him feel comfortable by asking him questions that will make him feel at ease.

People work off each other’s energies and your body language says a lot, give him positive vibes, so he will feel at ease with you.

9. Keep The Conversation Going

One thing to make your date comfortable is to give him the opportunity to talk about himself. Prevent any awkward silences, so think about questions that will make him open up. In this way, you can keep the conversation  going.

Researching about your sugar daddy ahead your date will help you in this area because it will give you an idea what type of questions to ask. Also, treat him like a dear friend, ask about his day and if anything exciting happened to him. Remember to always smile, laugh a lot and keep an eye contact.

10. Put Your Best Foot Forward

Aside from keeping the conversation going, you have to make sure that you’re presenting your best self during your date. You don’t have to pretend to be someone else, just be the best version of yourself.

Sugar daddies aren’t just after a sugar baby’s look. It takes more than perfect hair and makeup to get what you want. Sugar daddies want goal-oriented and intelligent women. You should be someone who can understand him, keep his attention, tickle his fancy and keep up with him.

11. Leave Him Wanting More

On your first date, an hour or so should be enough to get to know each other. If you have a great time and your chemistry is great, do not stay too long even if the sugar daddy is hinting for you both to stay out longer.

If he invites you to do other fun things after your dinner, politely say no and leave him wanting more. Make him feel that your time is valuable and it’s something that you can’t just give away especially on your type of relationship when an arrangement is not yet finalized.

12. Leave A Lasting Good Impression

Aside from leaving him wanting more, make sure that your date is memorable. Sugar daddies have the resources and they have lots of options when it comes to sugar babies.

Of course, they want to make a good choice when choosing a companion for their free time.

So, show him that you’re more than just a pretty face.

Don’t drink too much, don’t talk on and on about your ex, and don’t giggle at everything he says. Instead, talk about your interest, share your hobbies and favorite past time.

Share your favorite movies and books because he wants to know who you are and see if it’s a sound investment to see you again next time. Make sure he remembers you.

13. Make Future Plans

If your date turns out well, leave a good impression and let him know that you want to meet him again before you part ways. If you show interest in seeing him again, you will save him time in figuring out if you are worth the effort.

If the sugar daddy enjoyed your time together, he will surely text or call you on the same day or on the very next day to let you know how he feels. So, encourage him to reach out to you by letting him know that you’ll wait for his call or text for your next date.


Meeting a sugar daddy for the first time can be exciting, awkward or uncomfortable, so you have to prepare for it. You have to be ready physically and emotionally. You’ve got to look at your best,  dress up, appear smart, and sound funny.

The easiest way to have a fun and memorable date is to be yourself. Talk about your hobbies and interest and never forget to make the sugar daddy feel comfortable. Keep the conversation going until he feels comfortable opening up with you.

Most importantly, make your date memorable, so that he will not forget you and will want to be with you again.

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