Get the price you want in sugar dating. This article provides various tips and tricks to negotiate for sugar baby allowance.
Do you know that you can receive the allowance you want in sugar dating? Are you willing to negotiate to do so?
If you find yourself having a hard time getting the amount you want from your sugar daddy, then this article is for you. We will give you several tips, to help you get what you believe is your worth.
1. Get comfortable and be confident
The first step to getting what you want is to ask for it. However, this can be uncomfortable especially when you are asking for money.
If the thought of asking for the amount you want makes you a little queasy, take the time to make yourself comfortable with it before you begin asking for it. You have to sound sure and confident when you negotiate for your allowance.
To make this effective, practice a lot. Repeat what you want to say until you sound so sure and comfortable with every word you say. Confidence is the key, so you have to be comfortable when you negotiate for your allowance.
2. Take advantage of your phone
If you can’t really get to tell him in person the amount you want because you are too shy, then take advantage of the technology — use your phone!
I understand that there are people who can’t really get themselves say these things to their sugar daddy face-to-face. So, if you’re not completely confident to negotiate to your potential sugar daddy in person, then get your phone and talk to him. The distance might help you ease the tension.
All you need to do is control your voice and sound confident to convince him that you’re worth the price you’re asking for.
3. Find the best timing
While it’s best to get the allowance you desire immediately, you have to stop yourself from discussing this on your first meeting. Concentrate all your efforts in impressing your sugar daddy in your first meeting.
When the sugar daddy finds you interesting, he will bring up the allowance matter on his own. However, suggest that you are more interested in a suitable arrangement than money.
Make it clear to him that you are not desperate even if you are interested in him. The lack of overt interest gives you more control of the sugar relationship.
4. Do your research and know his range
You have to know how much your sugar daddy earns, so you will know how much to ask. Although the majority of the sugar daddies are wealthy, not all of them are willing to spend so much for a sugar baby unless they are really very interested in her.
When negotiating for an allowance, it’s best if you know how much to ask. That’s why you have to do your research first.
Google how much someone in his profession in the city you are both living in makes. Is he an employee or does he own a company? Does he have a family to support or is he single? These are among the factors to consider when determining how much he can provide to you.
Sugar daddies pay a little over 20% of their income toward their sugar babies. So, once you calculate his income, you should end up with a reasonable sugar baby allowance range. Start to negotiate from there.
5. Forget “ladies first”
If a sugar daddy is genuinely interested in a sugar baby, he will usually bring up the allowance topic by asking what you want. If you are not comfortable stating your allowance range, you can forget the “ladies first” thing and ask him for his range instead.
The easiest way to do this is by asking him if he had a previous arrangement. Ask how it went, what their terms were and how the allowance arrangement had been.
People are more inclined to answer uncomfortable questions after being asked a range of more comfortable questions. So, you better start out by asking the sugar daddy like “What does your ideal arrangement look like?”, “How often do you want to meet me?” After that pop in the question of what allowance range he’d be comfortable with.
6. Know your options
Your sugar daddy might already have his preferences on how much and how to give your allowance. However, it is still a good idea to get to know your options.
When crafting your allowance agreement, you have to consider how often do you want to receive it. Do you want to have it weekly or monthly?
You should also consider the way you would receive it. Do you prefer cold cash, bank deposit or pre-paid credit card? These things are something that you have to consider during your allowance arrangement.
7. Consider your location
Consider the living expenses in the city where you live. In general, sugar baby allowance in top cities tend to be higher compared to small cities. The difference may differ by a hundred to a few thousand dollars.
You need to know this to have a fair expectation from the sugar daddy. The top cities where sugar daddies spoil their sugar babies are Miami, New York, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, Hartford, Scottsdale, Seattle, Dallas, Boston and Cleveland. In the said cities, sugar daddies from Miami paid the most.
Sugar daddies in Miami pay $6,166, in New York, Los Angeles, Las Vegas and Scottsdale one earns between $5,100 to $5,600. Meanwhile, sugar daddies in Cleveland pay up to $4,600, $4,700 in Boston and Dallas, and $4900 in Seattle.
If you are in a small city the sugar allowance might not be as impressive compared to the big cities. So, don’t demand too much, you have to know the sugar baby allowance range in your area and consider this when you negotiate with your sugar daddy.
8. Remember you earn your allowance
You don’t have to be afraid to negotiate for your allowance because you spend time and work for it. Others don’t want to call this a job, but the rest feel that it’s just similar to their work. They invest time and get paid for it.
Just like any job, you render your service. Think about this, you listen to his stories, you listen to the drama of his life about work and family. You make him laugh, you accompany him when he is alone, join him on his business trips, and make him feel better.
There is no small service because people spend the majority of their money to be made to feel a certain way. For example, they get a massage to feel better, they visit a psychologist for mental health, or a doctor when they are sick. You are rendering a considerable service, so don’t feel bad when asking for what you want.
Receiving a sugar baby allowance is not a handout. You deserve it, so don’t be shy to name your price because you earn that money.
9. Do not explain
Do not justify the amount that you’re asking for. You do not have to mention your debt, rent, and utility bill to convince him why he should hand you the amount you mentioned because that’s unnecessary.
If he attempts to ask, just stick to the general answers like high-cost of living or your desire to save. Remember, you don’t need to tabulate your expenses for him.
10. Learn to cross him off the list
You set the sugar baby allowance that you should receive and if a sugar daddy can’t afford to give it to you, don’t feel bad to cross him off your list.
Men who understand your value and appreciate what the sugar baby does are willing to pay for it. They recognize your worth and what you bring on the table. They know that you’re a sound investment.
Remember, never ever beg or convince a sugar daddy to give you what you want because if he doesn’t see you as a worthwhile investment, he will not be a good sugar daddy. It’s okay to negotiate but do not settle for less than what you want because you will not be happy too. Your needs should be met.
11. Let an online medium do the work
You don’t have to do the negotiation, yourself, all the time. There are sugar daddy websites and sugar baby apps that list the amount directly on the profile. Thanks to this feature, it makes handling the most awkward aspects of sugar dating (money stuff) easier and convenient.
This way, you do not have to deal with the negotiation part. Also, the sugar daddy who contacts you is probably okay with the allowance stated because he sees it before he reaches out to you.
Sugar baby allowance is something that both parties should agree. Make sure to consider the sugar daddy’s income, family background, expenses and location when deciding for an allowance range.
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